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Category Archives: Ideal self
Three fundamental human needs (Part 4): Can we be both autonomous and connected at the same time?
I think this is a question that many people struggle with from time to time. The apparent conflict lies in thinking in terms of being autonomous/ independent versus connected as if these are two opposite ends of a continuum. If … Continue reading
Run beyond the boundaries: Changing the self-limiting beliefs
Last time I suggested that you reflect on the self-limiting beliefs (SLBs) if you would like to make better use of your potential to reach your ideal-self and your dreams. If you have a list of these SLBs that have … Continue reading
"Let’s go for it!" or "Be careful!" What do your goals look like?
I’ve always wondered why some people are content with minimal goals they must attain, while others go beyond what is “necessary”… And here’s a theory that has helped me understand the differences: Self-Regulatory Focus, by Dr. Tory Higgins (yes, the … Continue reading
"It takes backbone to lead the life you want, Frank."
April Wheeler: Don‚t you see? That’s the whole idea! You’ll be able to do what you should have been allowed to do seven years ago, you’ll have the time. For the first time in your life, you’ll have the time … Continue reading
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